Thanks, Ladies. "The Woman From the Gym" is turning out to be everything I thought she always was. We have been having a great time together, and have been calling each other like 15 year olds. She has had a few dates but as she said, nothing there. I tried to connect with a woman administrator from school. Nice...no chemistry, flat, cold. All I know is that when we are together, we both have told each other that it is electric, so it is mutual. She knows my STBX, I know her X, who when he found out told her "FLTC is a great guy. One of the funniest people I've ever met". Her Daughters and mine know each other, we told them and they were great with it. Her kids said "Mom, you started dating someone normal". I guess that's good. Her last guy was a "stalker", "I just need to see you for 5 minutes. I promise that's all the time I need." guy...Yech!
We have know each other for 20 years, and were married to other people, who I guess now, were not good for either of us. I have no regrets about seeing her. I did everything I could to try and save my marriage. I was loyal to my own detriment, losing myself, and almost my life. NOT GOOD. She has said she will protect my heart and never hurt me because of what we have both been through. She is aN icu nurse, totally getting the Army thing, and has looked into becoming an Army Reserve nurse. So far, it's all good. We seem to be very emotionally connected. She said yesterday, let's get your divorce over with so we can get on with this. Hmm. She said she would support me through the whole process. Yes. I may be infatuated, but I MAY have found the love of my life. I KNOW>>>GO SLOW!!!
THAT BEING SAID. I CAN'T FORGET YOU GUYS, MATTIE, MICHELLE, GYPSY, DONNA, WHAT IS, BETHIE, HAPPY, SUPER DAD, FRANK_D AND OF COURSE NO HILL. YOU GUYS HAVE BEEN HERE FOR ME FOR THREE YEARS. THREE OF THE DEEPEST DARKEST YEARS OF MY EXISTENCE. YOU ARE WONDERFUL, KIND HUMAN BEINGS WHO DESERVE SO MUCH MORE THAN THE SH&T SANDWICH LIFE HAS HANDED EACH ONE OF US ON THIS BOARD!
