Hey Kerry..

You sound like a busy little beaver! How does it feel detangling the remaining household and financial involvements with your ex spouse?

I've always felt the most memorable gifts were the ones under $25.. the ones where you keep meaning to get for yourself, but never get around to it. One year my mom gave me a whisk. I was howling with laughter because I reallly needed it! And I still remember even though it was 8 years ago.

Also.. I'd suggest getting her something now that reflects who she is to you, not something you happen to have (which can always be given at a later time). This is your first Christmas, after all. Make it personal.

Maybe even ask her what she wants.. you might be surprised.

*hugs*