Lisa, check the dating site and then log on and send a request. When he sees who you are say "the computer matched you two!! Obviously the perfect match..."
Anyway, he is not an enigma at all. What would you do if your object of your lust/affection/love told you that :he is still somehow connected to his W, shows that his W would be his first choice and you would be the second choice, told you about going out on dates with other women, never expressed a thing that could be translated to anything more than a man's joy when around a pretty/smart/clever woman AND worked for you?
What would you do? K
Give him the damn green light if you fancy him!! You asked before how. Invite him somewhere during the holidays, do it properly, not work related, on a Sat night... Wear breathtaking clothes, practice your flirting techniques, show joy/hapinness for being with him. Of course, only if you interested.
Lisa, you know where I am. Sometimes, we want what we cant have, what has been refused to us, we love what we had, our memories, our broken dreams. I dont know how often it is to rebuild that connection. It seems very difficult to me. And in my case, there are 2 kids and no obvious OW, living together etc... Are you sure you could handle the reconciliation process? Sorry I am so bold, but I want to share with you what I have been learning...
