It seems to be working! Sometimes....

[sandycay]

You know Bj, the lord pulls in different directions and your on my radar for now...don't know why and I don't question it but just offering my opinion and realize every situation is different as every person on this earth is different but there are some fundamentals that are the same.

Some one once said on here it's the law of the Jungle

The pursued run like the wind and to be pursued means they have turned toward you. I will say even though H and I are doing well there are some days I still test the psychology of this theory and it's true. I won't call him when he goes to work some days and some days I don't answer his calls right away but it seems to make him want, wander to talk to me more. Which goes to show that when we were all dating our S in the beginning we werent' 100% available all the time. I mean if we talk every minute of the day the silence gets yucky. He likes to call me on his commute home (a time when he used to call OW..I think out of boredom) now if we have talked alot and we are talked out I end the conversation because frankly....I'm not that interesting if I have already told you everything that's going on in my life and neither is he.

Now, I wrestle with the "I don't want to play this damn game the rest of my life" but really it's no big deal and I get a small bit of self gratification that I wait to return his call sometimes and don't call him to check on his day. Little baby steps!