Enough man-love, first tomato calls him sweetie now you are gushing...
Hey John just stopping by. You are a big boy and you will learn to navigate the dating game, I am sure of that. As long as you and ItalianLady40 both know the score, that is what matters.
I know Mike was dating a gal and she was trying to get too close too soon and he just leveled with her. Not that you are moving that fast I am just saying, when you are honest none of it has to be too uncomfortable. Just have fun and relax and maybe little john will come out of hibernation soon....