in a galaxy far, far away...

[glamgirl]

BM I wasn't implying on my post to you that you don't address issues or finances with your h, you just do so in a way that maintains the others respect. Your post seemed more like an attack on your h. This is an area that I am working on myself.

Also on this journey it's important to pick and choose your battles wisely. You have been m for many years, so maybe you have mastered how to communicate with your h, it was just MOB from your post.

Just remember in all of this you can't control anothers behavior. All you can do is control yourself and how you respond and that is part of GAL.