Got an email from the W about me telling her to get her own life insurance, changing the car insurance and the rest. I had sent a second one more or less recinding the first one, she obviously didn't read it.

She was all about "we need to discuss this face to face" and I can't afford this and we need to refinance the house. I'm trying to find a better job, they are trying to bring me in full time...blah, blah, blah...

I wrote her a letter, had written and put it with her bills. Basically told her she is all set with her health insurance and I will keep the car insurance the same until things get better. told her that everyone is going thru a tough time financially not just her. told her I wouldn't mind talking to you, I hear I'm a pretty nice person. Yep, used those exact words. anyway, I continued on with some humor. told her, you don't text me anymore, LOL (her phone got shut off) and we never email, but that's ok it was all to inpersonal anyway. Told her if she wants to talk to me, no problem, but lets not talk about bills its too depressing, lets talk about anything else, LOL. Told her that the new health insurance now as an annual $2k deductible total for family, so no more co-payment, it will be doctor payments until the $2k is met, so stay healthy! I left a message at her friends house for her to call me as well. I'll set her mind at ease, apparently she just got the email. Thought the letter was in good taste and very, very unemotional. Once again, stated the course of action, but this time, AmyC, I thru in a little me. I actually thought it was nice. Oh, also told her in the letter I am not trying to be a nasty person, I'm really not, it's just a huge burden for me. she apologized for me having to chase her for money for the car insurance. Oh, did I mention she overdrew the account agian getting gas coming home from the OM house. Yep, got that notice in the mail. So much for him giving her gas money, I think that is a made up line of horseshit she has been telling everyone. Oh well, nice little penalty for seeing him.

Went Xmas shoppign with D17 tonight. We had fun, I did anyway. really got into it and had a blast. Amy and FH, you guys really got my week off to a fgreat start. I am in a really good mood, even more since writing the letter. Do you think I should give it to her or just let everything slide and waititil she tries to conatact me? I really don't have a preference....Write to you all tomorrow. TGone, where are you?