Plan your holidays around your family and if your loon wants to join in, he may. I wouldn't plan anything around his plans because he's not sure of what he's doing from one second to the next.
You're right...he isn't doing anything to plan a nice xmas with his kids...and definately not me...so f-him.
If it didn't hurt the kids so much, I'd make him take them for a night. I make everything nice for everyone!
and...I get nothing.
I'm done.
Late I know - and you probably won't even hear me but - you are wrong, Sophie.
You will get plenty.
When you aren't bitter about making Christmas nice for others but instead, are grateful you have the ability - especially with your h being so slack.
Do what you do, Sophie.
To heck with him.
He's the one who is losing here.
You are making memories that will give back to you time and time again when your kids are grown and filling your house with your grandchildren every Christmas.
