I checked single (because I am) and only showed my income but I'm sure ALL "our" debt came up under my name when they ran the credit check as the financials are not finalized. I'm going to email my L and get this D completed.
Daughter called to a tell me her Christmas program at school was tonight. She is in both the choir and orchestra, the two groups that performed this evening. She was in the choir last year and I bought her a used violin, signing her up for the orchestra at the beginning of this school year.
I was able to attend the program and I'm glad I did. When I arrived X was already there sitting with DS as he was not in the program. When she saw me comming she had DS move over so I could sit by her (whatever). The children's performance was very good and I was impressed with the orchestra as they didn't sound anything like fingernails on a blackboard.
When the program was over and we turned around to leave OM was several rows back as he had arrived after me. He said hi to DD and X and left, telling X he would call her later. Their R is weird, no touching, kissing etc.
I did a little Christmas shopping on the way home and I'm feeling OK about the loan thing. I know it will work out in time.
I guess yen and yang really are in effect as I can't get a car loan and X can't get health insurance.
"Fear is the mind-killer" Muad'Dib Me 53, XW 44, DD 14, DS 12 Bomb and OM 12/15/06 Separated 01/02/07 Divorced 05/13/08 X married OM(OMH) 08/2009 Married 06/09/13