The most important thing to remember is that everyone's sitch is as different as the spouses are. What works for one person may not work for another, therefore the "try something different" method.
Think about it like taking medication. You have certain symptoms, so your doctor prescribes a pill for them. The pill helps stop one symptom but not others. So he prescribes you a different one. This time two symptoms are gone.
It's the constant trial and error to find out the right pill that will cure all the symptoms is what DBing is all about.
And sometimes sadly, no matter how much we try to find the right combination, nothing seems to work because our spouses are as stubborn as the ebola virus!
That's where the GALing and PMAs help you. The confidence you get from that will help you whether or not you're successful at "curing" your spouse.
M-43 W-40 2D - 9 and 5
Emotion, yet peace. Ignorance, yet knowledge. Passion, yet serenity. Chaos, yet harmony. Death, yet a new life.
