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Tawyna,

I just read your posts. You are so awesome. We are so much alike but you definately have more strength then I do right now. My H does not have OW in his life, at least not that I know of, but I am sure it will only be a matter of time. But you handled yourself with such grace and respect.

I am sure once it starts to sink in what he is really losing he may reconsider. And if not one day he will miss you and realize what a huge loss it was.

Funny how they get so wrapped up in the new and the adventures that come with it that they can't see what is real and true.

Stay strong and stay focused. I know by reading your stitch it is inspiring me to do the same.

Bless you.

Kristi


Tawyna, may I introduce the young lady that I told you about. This is Kristi, one of my new "sweeties". Kristi, thank you for doing what I asked and just taking the first step and saying, "Hi, I'm Kristi". I am proud of you! I am proud of Tawyna also, but she has not always been the tower of strength you see before you today (am I right Tawyna?) so it does take time to get there. The amazing thing for me was that both of yu reached the same decision the same day.....I think. At least I read it the same time....LOL. Anyway, you do both have so much in common and I am glad that you have met b/c I want the two of you to help each other in supporting one another. Both of you are very special in your own rights.

As I have warned you, and you know already, that there will be some hard days. AmyM needs our support right now b/c she had a bad day and her heart is hurting. She is mad and she is scared and that is when we lose ourselves. That is why I keep "preaching" to you (my sweetheart girls) that you have to prepare yourselves and work on you by giving yourselves all the affirmation you need to keep your PMA going and get that spunk in gear and go out there and kick butt. Well, kick your heels up a little any way..... Just trying to lighten the mood. So, I'll leave you two alone to talk and get acquainted. You're going to love each other! I do!

Sandi

It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!