Plan your holidays around your family and if your loon wants to join in, he may. I wouldn't plan anything around his plans because he's not sure of what he's doing from one second to the next.
You're right...he isn't doing anything to plan a nice xmas with his kids...and definately not me...so f-him.
If it didn't hurt the kids so much, I'd make him take them for a night. I make everything nice for everyone!
and...I get nothing.
I'm done.
Sophie
~~ Me-50 H-38 Married 15 years 8/7/08 D8 S10 S13 H affair 11/04-7/04 maybe longer H moved out 4/06
7/30/08- present: Reconnecting w/kids,friendly 10/30/08 H signed D papers 11/10/08 D papers filed 11/13/08 D papers served at home
