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(((Michelle))) just getting caught up. Although I don't post much anymore, I still keep an eye out ;\)

I am sorry your H is being a pain. I thought about D too, and don't want to be the one to file. Of course, I still want to work things out, but that is neither here nor there. A friend of mine said what difference does it make? Is a divorce going to make you feel any different?

For me, it won't. But you have to ask yourself the same question. If the D will bring you closure, and that is what you are seeking, then you have a choice to make. If it is not going to make you feel any different, let your H do it.

But also remember, if you can still get angry with him...there is still something there and you might want to address that before making any final decisions.

BTW, there are some idiot parents out there who just dont give a crap about their kids...lol! Remember to always smile when you are telling them to act like parents...


Im still standin better than I ever did looking like a true survivor feeling like a little kid Im still standin after all this time and Im picking up the pieces of my life without you on my mind..

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Hey kiddo!!
You are meeting tomorrow? Guess what? We are too!!! Well, tomorrow is as good as any day, right?

(Michelle, you need someone to make you wanna become (even)better, not drag you down so they can reach you sweetie...)
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(((Michelle))))

Good Luck for the meeting tomorrow. will it be on neutral territory somewhere?

And shame on your for trying to protect those kids from the swinging doors! ;\)

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Hey Michelle.. I came to wish you good luck for tommorow too. Seeing as you (and Kalni!) like a bit of astrology from time to time.. here is a post for this week.. tommorows the day kiddos..RealAstrologers

"On Tuesday, Mars sextiles Neptune, which is uniquely situated in a position indicating a window of opportunity to heal deep wounds. If you can bear some temporary discomfort and possibly even pain, the breakthroughs could be breathtaking."

Good luck!

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No clue if/when/where we are meeting tomorrow. Although it sounds like a perfect day for it!

Haven't heard back from H.

Off to make dinner.

((((((Everyone)))))))


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Hope you had a great dinner! Anything exciting?


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Back together with no defined R 05/2010
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Homemade grilled cheese sandwiches and Trader Joe's red pepper and tomato soup. Just sounded perfect for the cold and rainy weather.

Since last night was my "Saturday" I also went out with some friends to go country line dancing. R went with. We had a good time.

Today is errands and sleep and laundry and dishes. Then back to work tomorrow.

Meeting with H in an hour at a coffee shop. Should be interesting!


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Good Luck with the meeting!


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LOVE TJ's red pepper and tomato soup. That is one of the best soups I've ever had.

Good luck with the meeting


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bomb12/4/07
PA5/07
S12/26/07
D final 11/17/08
Back together with no defined R 05/2010
confused....to say the least!!!

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Hey Michelle..

Thinking of you ! Glad you got to meet him at last, I hope it went ok, cant imagine what he'll say!

Al xxx

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