Wow Mrs M...I dont know what to say! That is so wierd.. he wants yuo to meet him there on the 23rd.. isnt taht like, practically Christmas !??? And he is happy to come to dinner?? Wow! Did you think, why didnt I ask him before! I sort of cant believe he said yes, can you? So strange.

As for your past, that sounds like my ex's Dad.. his Mum had an A when he was 8 with the dads best mate.. and his Dad never recovered, he never had another R and was single for 20+ years and depressed. He had his mates and went to the pub every night, but it was a sad existence. I guess it really affected him.

Are you saying then that after your upbringing, he is not the man for you, emotionally, but that you wish it were different? How you feeling about him proceeding with the D?

Al xxx


Me:40! H:37 Together: 12yrs
IDLY & left 11/07 ADs 03/08 OW 8/08
Reconciled 05/09 now married!
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