My journal for today - very strange. So I emailed my H to ask if he wanted to come over on Sunday to have a Winter Solstice dinner.
I emailed: Hey, So how has work been .... any better?? Hope so \:\) Just wondering if you would like to have dinner with me on Sunday to celebrate Winter Solstice?? I was thinking Greek takeout.

H replied: that would be fine.

I emailed: Cool. What time is good for you?? So how have things been going w/you??

H emailed: ok I guess busy and poor. Oh I did get the divorce thing wrong and I was to serve you in 20 days so now I don't know what I have to do. I was to give you a paper and then you give it back to me. The whole thing is so hard to understand. I think anytime around 6 or 7. Or anytime really.

I replied: Good to hear you are busy - not that you are poor. Anything I can do to help? Divorce papers, don't know what to tell you. Do you have a court appointed person to talk to? Would you be willing to take a look at my wipers?? I can't figure out how to change them (got so pissed on Sunday when I tried & failed). If not that is ok. Personally, I prefer 4 or 5. Anytime is good for me though, whatever you decide.

Then he sent me another email

Do you think you could meet me at the court house on the 23rd to talk to them. I think if we are both there we can get this done with out having lawyers and refilling. The 23rd is when the county attorney is back.

I replied: I didn't think there was a "WE" in this process - LOL. All I can say at the moment is possibly. Talk about it on Sunday - maybe???


All I have to say is DAM !!- LOL \:\) I can't believe this - now I have to help him with the D papers!!! He asks for my advise on what to do??? This is just too funny - really it is ;\)


Me39, XH45
Kids 3 dogs, 2 cats
Divorced 6/4/09
Tricky thing is not how you live, but how you live with yourself. (POTC)