Why would you think or hope I would say that? it is true that I sometimes hold back "around here" but I don't feel you are done trying. i have a bad feeling about your wife...she resembles my wife in the "final" days...going to bed early no nudge nudge etc.....brings back bad memories. only you know what you can and can not put up with and for how long. It almost seems that your W is pushing you to make the final decision...I hope I am wrong.