Ahh, I see... I thought Jeff said she was being disrespectful to him, but evenso, I agree and wasnt thinking, these things should not be said in front of children (even if they are 19, lol). I didnt get the temperature thing either, becuase we do Celsius for some strange reason in the UK! But.. it is definetly cold !!
W and S19 do a pretty good job of being disrespectful to each other. It's kinda hard to read it sometimes, lots of it is tongue in cheek, but there's certainly an element that isn't. I think she takes it because she knows that she is wrong, at some level. He learned well from her, he can defend his position pretty well, if she pushes back.
It might not always be the right things to do, but I stay out of the way. For one thing, I don't necessarily know the "back story", so I'd be jumping in in the middle. For another, she has told me more than once not to butt in. I don't think he needs both of us ganging up on him, especially when it isn't deserved. And I don't need to be attacking her by taking his side. So, I watch.
It's about 60 F (that's about 15 C) here today, which is cold for me! On the other hand, it is COLD where BBJ is! She needs at least two pairs of socks!
The tree skirt isn't around the tree yet. I'll take a pic once it is!
It was bitter cold and 3" snow...not fun outside but fun to look at from inside.
I agree stay out of the middle of S and W's arguments. It would be different if he were 9 instead of 19 and she was coming down too hard. But he is an adult at this point (kind of!) and can handle it....
Going to put on the fuzzy socks for tonight. Maybe break out the flannel sheets. But then my socks spark on the flannel...
Snow is pretty to look at, and even fun, for a little while, if you don't have to go anywhere. But the cold..... yuck!
OK, here is the latest.....
Last week I reminded W that I needed her schedule in order to plan MC, and asked if she had a gender preference in C's. She told me she didn't have her scedule yet (which was certainly true), and that she had no preference.
I did a little looking around this morning, and I know that she has her scedule now, I expect that she got it yesterday. I think that I will not mention it, and not remind her again that I need it. She knows, I know that. I want to see how long it takes for her to tell me.
It seems to me the right thing to do. She said she doesn't know what she wants to do, but her actions have been yelling something different, at least to me. I can wait.
Well, we found out the results from our two days of meeting, and we survived. Our magagement is happy. It might even translate into a few extra dollars in a few weeks. I wasn't a big part of it, but it was still nice. I was really filling in for a guy who is already on vacation for the rest of the year!
I'm just borrowing trouble worrying about when W will tell me she has her schedule. But, on the other hand, it seems to me to be an opportunity to see what she really thinks.
Going to put on the fuzzy socks for tonight. Maybe break out the flannel sheets. But then my socks spark on the flannel...