At the moment you are salvaging yourself. I think that should be a tag line for db...Save yourself and possibly your marriage along the way. I am not saying marriages can't be saved. I believe they can and I do believe you have a chance. It sounds as if you did a really good job these past few days.

I know you were going to take time off from here and sometimes it does help. I actually had this guy asking about my family while his girlfriend was in an appt. with my boss. Through all of it I end up telling him I am divorced. He asked how I did it? Did what, stay married 19 years...I loved him. No how did you get through the divorce. I said I went to a counselor but I think what really saved me was this site and my friends. He asked if I still went to C, I said no. He asked if I still came here and I said yes. There is your C he said. I would have been lost with out this site. Smart nosy guy. \:\)

kat


Me-53(and learning!)
S24, S21, D18, D17
Just keep swimming, Just keep swimming. Dory