Is it the best 'as if', high road, DB way to
at least say ...'this is what the kids and I are thinking for xmas and new years...what are your thoughts?"

Or just ignore him.

Remember, I want to be the coolest chick...ever!!

Sophie

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Me-50
H-38
Married 15 years 8/7/08
D8
S10
S13
H affair 11/04-7/04 maybe longer
H moved out 4/06

7/30/08- present: Reconnecting w/kids,friendly
10/30/08 H signed D papers
11/10/08 D papers filed
11/13/08 D papers served at home