I'm going to type this here...so that I DON'T call/text WASband with it...

In response to H saying this xmas being hard for him $$$-wise...

I SO want to say:

"But you have money to DIVORCE ME!"

or

"AND my xmas money is sitting in my Lawyers OFFICE"

or

"...."

SOMETHING not very nice.

That wouldn't be taking the high road though would it.

I don't know whether to ask how he would like to spend the rest of the holidays...xmas and new years...or, should I just play it by ear?

It seems someone gets hurt when the plans aren't made....I don't know.

I want him to KNOW the changes in me...but, I don't know whether to be a friend...or just be friendly.

Sophie

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Me-50
H-38
Married 15 years 8/7/08
D8
S10
S13
H affair 11/04-7/04 maybe longer
H moved out 4/06

7/30/08- present: Reconnecting w/kids,friendly
10/30/08 H signed D papers
11/10/08 D papers filed
11/13/08 D papers served at home