Partner left after 9 years - now what?

[mishka422]

No great advise from me about the NC but how about this - He's the one missing out by not being in contact with you. You love and support him and genuinely care for him. Who else in his life does that? Probably not many and definitely not Helen! He's missing out on you. His loss. It's not about you - you're fabulous!!!

There, how's that?

Gabe was exactly like that Ali. He hid his true self from everyone except me but in the end he had found a way to hide from me too.

((((((((((Ali)))))))))))))