Hi Lan,

Sorry I forgot about your birthday but good its no big deal to you.

"... when I work my butt off we only just stay on an even keel."
Some think this is "co-dependence" ... others "perseverance".

"I was in danger of slipping into becoming a babysitter, housemaid and bill payer all the things which turned W away from me."
Some women "feel" this is "sexy" ... others get "turned off".

"So I gonna get back out and find me ..."
Some think its "GAL" ... others say it leads to "separation and D".

If you speak to God-fearing people they think the man must be the "head of the house".
Lan ... you are a thinker ... what's the right way?