H emailed me a few minutes ago saying "We need to talk, but it must be in a public place. Ill be out tomorrow and we can go to McDonalds or whatnot. I'm not going through this again."
So it sounds like he's definately blaming me and not taking any fault to being so angry, physical, etc.
I don't even want to talk to him. I want to start thinking he's never coming back.
I do not think you should talk to him if you don't want to. When you are ready, then that will be your time. He has done this way too many times. Let him wait for now.
The Bomb: 08/05 H moves out: 06/2006 H moves back: 01/07 & Out again: 01/07 H moves back: 03/08 & Out again: 04/08 H moves back: 05/09 & Out again: 07/09 Divorced 08-12 Kids: 22, 20, 19
Thanks MWG and Amy. I have decided NOT to see him IF he decides to follow thru on this. I don't have it in me right now. Not at all. He thinks that he can dictate when he'll come over for D, etc and not think of the plans that we may have. I'm tired of it all. I wish there were more options in this, but there isn't right now.
FG: I just told you on my thread the flavor of the day--you should go and get some. It is really good.
The Bomb: 08/05 H moves out: 06/2006 H moves back: 01/07 & Out again: 01/07 H moves back: 03/08 & Out again: 04/08 H moves back: 05/09 & Out again: 07/09 Divorced 08-12 Kids: 22, 20, 19
I'll post more later, but I'm a mess today. I think I'm the one spinning. And then we got news that a great guy here at work died this morning. He had a heart attack while shoveling snow. I could just scream right now!
