Tawnya, my W can do the same thing. She can look me in the eye and tell me this is best for our D7. She is not the W I married. Every once in a while...and over the last few days...the real W has come back out a bit. I can tell it in her tone of voice and the way she acts. Then a little time passes and the new W comes back with all the crap.
Hang in there...
I get the same moments. I can understand true "unhappiness" or "needing space" to think about things....if their was NOT an OP. But to say how "right" and "good" this will be for our families under these circumstances......Aliens have landed!!
H 34 W 31 M 11yrs D 11 D 9
6-1-08 I wanted to fix marriage 6-11-08 I found out about OM