His family is all in Germany, so it is tough. I know my D12 wants to get him something for Christmas, so I am debating on extending a dinner invitation. I will see if the opportunity comes up. If it is suppose to, it will. I have found that with something like this, the opportunity presents itself, and then I just go with it. Works better.
I did call him last night, though, to see if he got our ear drum breaking message (lol). He answered, and I wished him a Happy Birthday and asked if he got our serenade. He said what? So I asked again, did you get our serenade...and he said huh? (Now, considering English is is second language, and although he is fluent, I figured maybe he did not quite get what I was saying). And I said D12 and I left you a message this morning singing Happy Birthday, and he said I am sorry I can't hear you, my ear drum is broken! I nearly fell out of my chair laughing! But the really great thing was in that moment, I saw my H, the smart aleck, great sense of humor...and it was precious...and really funny!
Im still standin better than I ever did looking like a true survivor feeling like a little kid Im still standin after all this time and Im picking up the pieces of my life without you on my mind..