Thanks for the response. The addiction thing was tough, what I tried to explain to her about it was that until I did rehab and IC I never thought I was addicted (not anymore).
I do need to get the books but like I said the ironic thing is that since she told me she was going to file I've been doing everything it seems I'm supposed to. Like one of my 180's was she hated when I didn't have an opinion on doing something. Well I decided for Christmas we would do it like last year except I would take the kids with me in the afternoon to do Christmas with my parents, she thought that was a good idea. I just thought if this is our last Christmas married I might as well let the kids have as normal a Christmas as possible.
The thing I was really surprised about was before we decided on Christmas she decorated the house and hung my stocking up. In her family stockings are a huge part of Christmas, I was very surprised to see it up.
The only thing that keeps entering my mind is she is waiting till after the holidays, but she could have filed six months ago...I tend to over-think everything
Me:40 W: 39 T: 17 years M: 15 years S-9 D-6 D final 11/10/2009
"We are all faced with a series of great opportunities brilliantly disguised as insoluble problems."
