H emailed me a few minutes ago saying "We need to talk, but it must be in a public place. Ill be out tomorrow and we can go to McDonalds or whatnot. I'm not going through this again."

So it sounds like he's definately blaming me and not taking any fault to being so angry, physical, etc.

I don't even want to talk to him. I want to start thinking he's never coming back.