Divorced, but 'still hopeful' to reconcile.

[still hopeful]

Scarred,

I didn't finish.

I do encourage 8 year old activities, but unfortunately, when XW has our children she has to be entertained, either by men or in this case a troubled 13 year old girl. I never have this child with me so that is not an issue for D8 when she is with me.

And yes, I do need to tread lightly on many subjects because I have often failed to steer the issue away from WHO is right and towards WHAT is right. THAT is my leadership failure directing the conversation towards as logical and fruitful conclusion. I will focus on changing that now.

Tom