Hey Mish! I agree!! I would say to him.. "what do you really think!?". I think when I say, didnt argue, of course we would bicker if tired like any couple! But I mean, we didnt have destructive, or hurtful arguments, the destructive, throw his clothes out hte window stuff that some woman engage in! I was respectfuil and never called him names, or swore nor did he. BUT.. yes, of course he was repressed!
And he should have spoken up sooner if he was unhappy. I did try and get him to! I did know he was like that and that he wore a mask, but I wrongly assumed he didnt AS much with me. So was Gabe like that?
I think now I know that, I would be more in tune and not get drawn in to another R like that. My BMF for example.. ok, hes M so off limits, but I still wouldnt go for him if he were single as I sense he needs IC.. the old me would have given it a go anyway and hoped for the best !
So Naej... can we leave the discussion there? I have learnt my lessons in R's/matured.
Its sinking in now that my ex doesnt want contact with me it seems sadly.. Lisa.. where are you?? You coped so well with NC and didnt let it get you down.. any advice on how to not take it personally !??
