You are so right about the rant. I am trying to find forgiveness. I guess I haven't found what works yet for the vent.
This movie has been a sticking point for him since it came on tv. We have always watched movies together, just the two of us. We would not watch anything new without seeing it together. I know that he knew the general theme of this movie, but I'm sure he didn't know the detail of the various scenes. He wanted to see it, I didn't. It became a debate back when I was home sick and we did nothing but watch movies.
In addition to being about 2 guys, to me it was also about the infidelity. The poor mans wife saw him locked in a passionate kiss with the other guy! Ugh! It struck a nerve. Marriage vows are vows, no matter WHO you cheat with.
I let him win the debate last night, against my better judgement. I was tying to show him that things did not always have to be "my way".
Most of us are about as happy as we make up our minds to be.