Carlos, its been a long time. i've been going through my hibernate and mourn phase and its not going well. so i'm done with that. I've had enough and its time to stop doing what doesnt work. the holidays are tough, best solution is to surround yourself with good people, and if they're not available, any people.
so much wisdom on your thread, from RTL and NW and Kalni and yourself and everyone else. thank you all. I can use almost everything here, applied directly to me, and it'll fit like its tailor made.
in the past few weeks i've been reminded why i'm in my sitch, why things wont get fixed, why she aggrevates me so much. its been good and bad.
like you, i miss my W. but i think i miss the W that was never there, the one of fantasy, or the one from long ago, or the one i always hoped she would be. The woman she is now is not someone i would be attracted to. whether that means she's changed or my tastes/priorities have changed - i dont know.
i like your new moniker, a constant reminder of your goal.
"In a ham and eggs breakfast, the hen is involved, but the pig is committed".
