Now do you see what you have done--you called him again and again and what did he say to you? Let him be. You already know this.
Okay, so you have looked in the mirror and did not like who you saw. Do something, don't cry, time to wipe the tears away and make some changes, not for him but for you.
The Bomb: 08/05 H moves out: 06/2006 H moves back: 01/07 & Out again: 01/07 H moves back: 03/08 & Out again: 04/08 H moves back: 05/09 & Out again: 07/09 Divorced 08-12 Kids: 22, 20, 19