It is great that you are detaching. I don't want to confuse you...but, detaching is about "emotionally" detaching not "physically" detaching. You are detached from the clerk that sells you a pair of shoes at the mall....they cannot hurt you emotionally. However, you can show them kindness. Where am I going with this? I don't think reaching out to help your W with her brakes (or anything else) is a sign you are NOT detached....in fact, just the opposite is true! Because you CAN show your wife love by helping her and not worry about getting hurt...this is a sign that you ARE detaching. Keep it up, Brother!
Praising God Daily, Remaining "FaithfulH" Me: 62 W: 62 D:33 S:30 & 31 Married: 40 Years BD: Sep 2006 Piecing: May 2007 2nd BD: May 2014 Working On It: Today
