My wife and I are separated almost a year and a half at this point. I know she's had the D papers for about six months but hasn't filed them yet...My question is when I will help her watch the kids or like the other day we decorated the tree and she asked me if I wanted to stay for dinner (yes) the hard thing for me is knowing how long to stay. I don't ever want to get "asked" to leave but I want to stay as long as possible.

I know it's not a question that can be answered easily but some tips would be great.


Me:40
W: 39
T: 17 years
M: 15 years
S-9
D-6
D final 11/10/2009

"We are all faced with a series of great opportunities brilliantly disguised as insoluble problems."