FaithfulH, read it again, yes I am doing everything it says. I have removed the toxic relationships or as I refer to the them the "Bad Vibe" group. I do not ask for opinion or support as everyone just gives opinions based on nothing anyway.
My final step in detachment was seeking the higher power (3 weeks ago). Again, I only go back, rarely, to ask what she is thinking, not directly to her. I practice tough love and I am getting all too good at it. I don't fix any situation for her, her brakes were only bvecause she picks up my duaghter. I can't have them fail with her in the car. I told her what she needs to know about it and thats all. I don't ask about her. I only ask Him, because He knows. I am doing well detaching, I am . You have no idea how bad I was, but I am good now. MY emotions are mostly because I do everything now, I am all things to those I love, especially me. I have no one to lean on in the physical sense as it drives them into the abyss. I lean on Him because I want to and need to. And He has responded with His Greatness and Love. I jhave posted the Detachment link to my favorites and will review them weekly or as needed to make sure I am doing it right.
