How to know when to let go PT2????

[Tawnya]

{{{Kristi}}} I really know what you mean about "what are we hanging on to"..I think we are hanging on to what we THINK it should be, what we know it was, and what we know it COULD be if only they'd see it that way too and realize that we are WORTH it..

I guess, though, in reality, we need to realize WE ARE worth it, realize and mean that it is "their loss", and keep putting one foot in front of the other and someone learning to love ourselves and one day we'll wake up and realize we are okay without them or with them..

Don't beat yourself up by wondering why you are still hanging on, this is a person you've spent 12 years of your life with, you are totally allowed to feel 100 different ways, and sometimes all within the same day *LOL*..sometimes within the same minute if you are like me LOL

Thank YOU for telling me I can come vent and the same holds true for you and, I tell you what, let's just help each other get thru this next few weeks..and realize that 2009 will be the year of US (sounds crazy to me..but we need something to look forward to eh?)

Tawnya