That's the way to go Amy. When you can be nice and he'll cooperate....then go for it, but if you have to play hardball, then so be it. Just don't let your guard down b/c you never know what you may be hit with next. It is sad that we have to live that way at times, and hopefully it won't last forever, but I think it will for a while.....until this mess is settled.
BTW, thanks for all your support for Kristi. She and Tawnya made the same dicision the same day and I almost wet my pants! Okay, so I was excited! Anyway, you are down the road ahead of her and Tawnya and can tell them what to expect and they see your steps of courage (such as going to that part along....man, was I proud of you)! That is certainly stepping out of the comfort zone for a lot of women and some would be scared to death to do that b/c they can't imagine going anywhere alone. But, you have the spunk to do that and end up having a ball.....I love it!
Hope you have a good day.
Sandi
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
