WAW - Possible MLC I need help, WAWs advice III

[FaithfulH]

LonelyD,

I have looked at many things, last night I was trying to fal asleep, but realized I haven't seen her, really talked to her and feel bad that she is not seeing what I now see and what everyone else sees.

As you went on to say....your W "sees" you in many ways. Some of these ways, God will provide and you won't even be aware of them until much later (maybe even never). I think your biggest opportunity right now is to DETACH! Did you read that link I sent you? If not, here it is again:
What is Detachment?

Most of what you write is focused on your W and what her reaction will/should be. You need to focus 100% on you and your kids. You seem far to focused on doing things because they might win your W back. I thought Detachment meant giving up on a person....it is EXACTLY the opposite. You detach so they can grow without you interfering...and ironically, detachment is the MOST loving thing you can do for a loved one. You and your W (and probably your kids) are finding your way back to the REAL source of love....God. In the end, your love for each other will be stronger for it!