So last night my W sends me a text saying she wants us to take our daughter to Disneyworld for her 5th bday in Feb. She says we really NEED to go there. Disney is a place that was very special to us as a couple. We grew up together in So.Cal. and went there often on date nights. We have a lot of wonderful memories there. 20 mins later her best friend calls me (she never does this) and starts begging me to do something to stop this path that my W is on. She says I need to take charge and put an end to this and save my family. I feel like I've tried everything, and I don't know what else to try. My wife has gone from wanting a immediate D to now a legal sep, but she says that she sees no future for us. Then I get these Disney messages. After I talked to her friend I called my wife and we had a long conversation and she says things like she knows what she is doing is against God, and that she's praying that God will change her heart back to wanting her family, but that she doesn't understand why he hasn't done that. I told her that God won't wave a magic wand and fix things, but that he wants her to come to him in obedience and from there he will work on her heart. Anyhow, she spends a lot of time crying on the phone, but she doesn't really say anything concrete. This morning she doesn't even mention the conversation. What should I do from her? How can I take charge and put an end to this when she doesn't even live at home?
