Aww {{{{Mules}}}}} Thank you so much for saying that about my kids..and that I rock too!! WOW..thank you for starting my day off so great! AND I get to have the "man credo" of strength and honor too..how cool is that??
Thank you so much for checking in with me while you are going thru crap yourself my friend!! Hope your day is good.
Tawnya
Me:39 H:40 D18/S12 M20/T21 Bomb 10/11/08 One Two Three Four
Hi Tawnya, glad you liked the Alien pod. Since this all started I really do not know my H at all. Even when my oldest D came down for Thanksgiving she could not believe how robotic her father was. She was here in May and said he was a different person. Guess when you carry the weight of your lies on your shoulder. Hope you have a good day and that we all get through Christmas and maybe even enjoy it a little bit. take care
Me 53 H 50 D16, D29 M 22 years bomb 7/08 INH - alien pod replaces H 8/08 - OW (direct report), I work there also bomb II - H moves 10/1 expose ow 10/22 D to be final 9-09
{{Hope}} Yes I hope we can find some enjoyment in Christmas..
Yes my hub can sit there and say that he has a clean conscious no matter what he is doing..and the fact that he would mess up our family and this other lady's family too..is NOT MY husband, so I'd say the alien has landed LOL
Tawnya
Me:39 H:40 D18/S12 M20/T21 Bomb 10/11/08 One Two Three Four
I think we should all rent "invasion of the body snatchers" I think it was really based on WAS..
Me 53 H 50 D16, D29 M 22 years bomb 7/08 INH - alien pod replaces H 8/08 - OW (direct report), I work there also bomb II - H moves 10/1 expose ow 10/22 D to be final 9-09
Tawnya, my W can do the same thing. She can look me in the eye and tell me this is best for our D7. She is not the W I married. Every once in a while...and over the last few days...the real W has come back out a bit. I can tell it in her tone of voice and the way she acts. Then a little time passes and the new W comes back with all the crap.
Tawnya, my W can do the same thing. She can look me in the eye and tell me this is best for our D7. She is not the W I married. Every once in a while...and over the last few days...the real W has come back out a bit. I can tell it in her tone of voice and the way she acts. Then a little time passes and the new W comes back with all the crap.
Hang in there...
I get the same moments. I can understand true "unhappiness" or "needing space" to think about things....if their was NOT an OP. But to say how "right" and "good" this will be for our families under these circumstances......Aliens have landed!!
H 34 W 31 M 11yrs D 11 D 9
6-1-08 I wanted to fix marriage 6-11-08 I found out about OM
alien definitely has landed in my backyard and taken over...for now
Me 53 H 50 D16, D29 M 22 years bomb 7/08 INH - alien pod replaces H 8/08 - OW (direct report), I work there also bomb II - H moves 10/1 expose ow 10/22 D to be final 9-09
I just read your posts. You are so awesome. We are so much alike but you definately have more strength then I do right now. My H does not have OW in his life, at least not that I know of, but I am sure it will only be a matter of time. But you handled yourself with such grace and respect.
I am sure once it starts to sink in what he is really losing he may reconsider. And if not one day he will miss you and realize what a huge loss it was.
Funny how they get so wrapped up in the new and the adventures that come with it that they can't see what is real and true.
Stay strong and stay focused. I know by reading your stitch it is inspiring me to do the same.
Hope your day is good.