if you have anytime at all sandy. Even though she didn't ask you to herself, I think that perhaps you might be able to provide a pointer or two for Miss BobbiJo. She needs to learn some of the finer points of firm and complete detachment (don't we alll) and your name was mentioned on her thread because of the way that you went about things in getting your H to move on his way when that was what he said he desired (or thought he did @ one time. That is what she is up against also and she is a bit too much of a fixer and an enabler. She is at the point of being ready to box up his belongings and give him a push (lovingly of course ). She just can't seem to get up the nerve some times and can't get any 'leverage' to do what she knows she must. I think she could use some encouragement from you to help mitigate some of the fears we all struggle with.
Gabiche?!?
I hope you and the whole family are doing real well as you prepare for the arrival of the baby Jesus.