I think you just answered your own question.

You cling to him so much that you appear obsessed with him.

You have got to let go, get rid of the urge to call him or whatever and you have to have no expectations.

You cannot get into his head and his every thought as none of us can but my only advice is to back off and live your life.


The Bomb: 08/05
H moves out: 06/2006
H moves back: 01/07 & Out again: 01/07
H moves back: 03/08 & Out again: 04/08
H moves back: 05/09 & Out again: 07/09
Divorced 08-12
Kids: 22, 20, 19