CIW, I just posted on your thread. DON'T PANIC, OK? That is the first thing to keep in mind. The next thing is DO NOTHING. When we are very very emotional, we want to express those emotions. Believe it or not, our spouses are definitely not ready to handle them so Don't even go there. Keep in touch.


Me:39
H:40
S:9
D:7
First Bomb ONS:June 07
Second Bomb OW: March 08
Separated: March 08
M:15 yrs
T:18 yrs
H deep into A with OW
Achieved ACCEPTANCE May 30, 09

'Yes, I can.'