Thanks for stopping by Arthur and Whiskey to see how I am doing.
Things have been progressing slowly. The W and I have been getting along really well and I see alot of positives. The other night my D and I were watching a tv show together when my W came to join us. There was not alot of room between us and when she sat down I went to move over and she told me not to. After my D left we sat that close and continued to watch tv till I went to bed.
This past Saturday her and I did get to go out and spend time together. She has been wearing her ER all the time but not her WR. I continue to do as much as I can around the house and she seems to appriciate it. The only negative I have seen is that on Saturday when we went to bed together and she snuggled up to me she did not do it under the covers and she hasn't for quite a while. She said her hand was cold and I said to come under my covers but she just used her blanket to cover her arm. This is typical but its the first time I mentioned anything and not that I was disappointed but it sort of drove home to me that there is still things that we need to overcome.
I know that things are improving and I debate back and forth whether or not I should force some issues to speed things up a little bit. Sometimes I feel if I just gave a little push here or there we would turn the corner and other times I think it would hinder our progress. Timing is everything and hopefully when I do it, it is done in a way that helps us move forward.
Other than that things are hectic with the holidays, swimming and my work load.
How are things with you Whiskey? Ready for Christmas?
A, I have been following your sitch just nothing to add. Sounds like you are doing really well and hanging out flirting with the ladies is harmless and as long as your not becoming the OM in there stitches there is nothing wrong with talking and listning to them. Plus what a great ego boost.
