Hey t2l, cant sleep. H also talked about not wanting to go to work since he will probably get fired. I said I don't understand that you have 16 years of a good career here and why will OW not leave the company. Why should both of you get fired? H said who said she was not looking for another position? I said she does not have the "luxury" to look for another job. Just leave and then look around. It would take the strain of looking at the biiissshhh at work anymore. I know H was thinking about it. I did check about suing OW. It is called "alienation of affection" (Interesting they call it alien!) but it is no longer a law in Texas. Another state that backed down from what is an agressive OW. But I can name her in D (I will). More from PI -- OW got 1/2 of business and assets from xH 3 years ago and $1400/mth spousal support. Guess when it ended -- this year! she needs a new sugar daddy. -- guess who?
And on an odd note -- went to see IC today. He said he got a call from the Army base to come in for consolation/recovery therapy for their employees because an employee killed himself on Friday. The IC said for a minute I was worried it was your H!! Said it passed his mind because of the way I described his mental condition this past month. How sad is that.
How are you holding up. I dread the new year but can't wait till after Christmas. We will make this. Want to come to Tx after new year??
Me 53 H 50 D16, D29 M 22 years bomb 7/08 INH - alien pod replaces H 8/08 - OW (direct report), I work there also bomb II - H moves 10/1 expose ow 10/22 D to be final 9-09
