WAWs have a very warped sense of entitlement and THAT is what makes them ABLE to walk away - because they often think (selfishly and wrongly) they've put so much into everyone else that it's now time for them. Well the reality is this: THE JOB WASN'T DONE. She didn't have a right to pack her sh*t and walk out on two children, let alone you, but let's leave you out of the equation for now.
It is great that you stepped up and have been a good father to your boys but have you really given ANY consideration to what she has taught those boys BY LEAVING THEM?
Have you given any consideration to what she is showing them ABOUT YOU by just walking the hell back in?
This I totally agree with, but I don't think it is my place to make her see things as you say and I don't think I can. I think that is God's job and only He can do it. Just as He would have to be the one to teach me to forgive her.
