I am sure you have a lot of insight into WAW's, but you assume a lot about my situation from a few paragraphs. I did not come here for advice, I simply asked if someone could give me some insight into what she was thinking.
But you are dead on about your evaluation of what the WAW thinks. She was totally self centered and felt that she had sacrificed everything to do for others and it was her turn. She made the choice and she will have to live with it. We wont be going back to the past. I think she knows that but is testing the waters.
I am quite familiar with the Bible truth be told, but not as good at living it. I am trying not to be prideful or have a haughty spirit. I am trying to forgive and live in peace with the woman I vowed to honor and cherish. But in the end, God gave her freewill and she will have to live with her decisions and I with mine.