Moving her from Newbees

[Clayton]

Hi Clayton, Just wondering have you ever told your W this? It may not make a difference - but just wondering??


I'm just sick and tired of coming home to an empty house every night. I want to share my life with someone and have someone appreciate being with me.

I'm on the edge of getting a D too -BTW.

Hey MsMelancoly,

Wife knows exactly how I feel about the situation. I never saw this coming, didn't want it then....don't want it now.

I don't know if I ever want to get married again. I can't believe the person that I trusted most in the world pulled this stunt.

For the first few months after the bomb, I blamed myself 100% for the situation. Now I believe that I was a good husband and it was her that had the issues. She never has discussed the relationship and I still to this day don't know where I went wrong. If I had to do it over again, there would only be some minor changes that I would address. Nothing major at all. I would help around the house a little more and not be so frugal (frugal means living within your means).

We had a lovely home, new cars, world trips every 2 yrs. Most people would kill to have our lifestyle.....but not her. She wanted something else.

Sometimes I feel like just packing it all in and moving back to NZ.