Originally Posted By: NoCodeBlues
A bit of a rhetorical question, for anyone who cares to chime in: What is it with L's?

Well, from my experiences with L's this past year, my H and his OW both L's and my L and H's L, I have a very low opinion of Ls right now. I'm sure there are a few decent L's out there, but I think they are more the exception than the rule.

I do believe they are primarily motivated by $$$ and yeah, the more they can make in your case the better. Although that may not be better for you. I think their first interest is trying to get as much $$$ as they can and then their secondary interest is to represent you. So I would limit emails or conversation to only that which is essential for your L to know about. I've been frustrated too b/c my L has me come in every week, always wanting me to come in asap, and then there never seems to be much of a point to the meeting other than having me read some legal documents she filed. I mean I can read those at home for free!!! And she'll ask me to read them 2 or 3 times! Anyway, sorry for the digression, but yeah, just remember they are basically like those cabs where the meter is running, but the L's have a very expensive meter going at all times!!! I'm resolved after my D, to never, ever have an L in my life again!!! Karen


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