Hi Scott, Sorry to hear the news about the big D. However, you now have the wisdom and experience to make the rest of your life so much better than the past was.
I am at the point where I actually feel a bit jealous, just wish I could hit the FF button and be done with the whole process. Alas, that can't be.
On the good side, I took my first ride on my new Easton TT wheels today. Yeehah!
Carpe Diem my friend!
SD
Me 41 W 41 Kids: S9 S7 Married 16 years Bomb dropped 2/2/07 Still living together! current thread
Sir Scotty 2 hotty I have not been on these boards in forever but something told me to come back and check tonight. You are a amazong person who I am glad to call a friend. You helped me through some very tough times. Here is to you and new beginnings.
found out about affair 8/06 H moves out Nov/06 D final 8/07 X re marries OW 5/08 _________________________ Courage does not always roar, sometimes it is a quiet voice at the end of the day saying... " I will try again tomorrow". -- Mary Anne Radmacher
I learned a lot from you, including that there is more than one kind of happy ending. Thanks once again!
I firmly believe that the future holds terrific things for you, and I don't doubt for a second that you'll find yourself that special, very lucky, lady friend to share it with. Enjoy it!
Rob
Thread #10 22 year M, MLC, Piecing since 1/07 Goal: Live with confidence & enthusiasm!
Hey Scott! Just finished reading up on you.......wow....
I am approaching 3 years on being D'd now. Seems like yesterday that it all ended. I don't regret it. All good for me for that aspect of it. OUR kids are doing good. S17 is strong with everything....D15 is still tossing feelings around but is ssslllloooooowwwwwwwly understanding her mom....but she will have to be older to "get it".
Better late than never...haven't been around much at all for the past several months. But I'd also like to chime in and say...CONGRATULATIONS. Not because you're divorced, because ultimately that wasn't your choice - it was thrust upon you.
But rather congratulations because with it having been thrust upon you, you have finally come to the end of this loooooong chapter, and can TRULY begin moving forward with the rest of your life. You handled yourself really well through it all (even when you made mistakes), so hold your head up and look forward to a lot of good sh!t.
And, I will give you a call to catch up - I've been really bad about it of late - have a great weekend buddy-
Kev
"Our greatest glory is not in never falling but in rising every time we fall." -Confucius
"God alone decides the contest; but we must put our shoulders to the wheel." -Adm. D.G. Farragut
Kevin-38; XW-36 M-2.5, together 4 Bomb-1/6/07; D-6/27/07
Me 55; XW 47; 2 kids (S13, D11) Bomb 05/19/06 Original thread http://tinyurl.com/yg2ou2t Last anniversary 04/25/10, Divorced 5/12/10 Status: Loving father of 2 beautiful children;
